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Outgoing Personality Mods

All mods on this page are organized alphabetically by the mod creator and not name of the mod.

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1.) Secret Handshake AND Proper Greetings by Hexagonal-Bipyramid

This mod re-enables the secret handshake greeting that was gone from Nightlife and later EPs. Apparently, Maxis replaced the secret handshake with the “euro kiss” (kiss on each cheek).

Normally, both Sims only need to have a daily relationship score of 50-70 to do the secret handshake, but since the requirement is very similar to the euro kiss greeting, I decided to add other requirements:
– The initiator needs to have more than 5 Outgoing points
-The initiator needs to have more than 3 Playful points

If all the requirements are met, Sims will do the secret handshake. If not, they will do any other appropriate greeting depending of their relationship.

2.) Stop inviting yourself in! by Kestrellyn

In the unmodified game, sims with 9 or 10 outgoing points, who are not there to deliver a date gift or as a normal walkby, and who are friends of a member of the household, will automatically invite themselves into your house. For some reason, the game seems to sometimes spawn household friends as visitors who will come and ring your doorbell. Unfortunately, when it does this with outgoing sims, they just walk into your house uninvited. In some cases I’ve said goodbye to these sims over and over only for them to immediately spawn again and once again enter the house without an invitation! This hack makes it so that outgoing sims will have to wait to be greeted just like everyone else. Note that this also applies to sims you intentionally invited over.

3.) Bring friends home more often by Marhis

The probability a sim brings friends home from work or school depends on his/her personality and a fixed probability value. If the sim is 0 or 1 points shy, will almost never bring friends home, and the overall probability is not very high (25% from work and 35% from school). These two hacks raise these probability values to 75% for all sims with 2 or more points in outgoing personality. Your sims will bring friends home almost every day; notice that any household member will be affected, till the “maximum visiting sims” limit, so you have to consider also this, in your calculations. The default limit should be 4, unless you’ve raised it already with some hack or cheat code.

4.) More Autonomous Dancing by Midge The Tree

Sims already can autonomously dance to live music from every instrument except the violin, they just prefer to watch. This mod makes which action they prefer to do should be dependent on how outgoing they are (outgoing sims prefer to dance, shy sims prefer to just watch).

5.) No Shock for Outgoing by Pescado
Apartment Life ll Free Time ll Bon Voyage ll Seasons ll Pets ll OFB ll Nightlife ll University

Outgoing sims will no longer shriek when they see other sims naked.

6.) Always change clothes before going out in public by Squinge

This mod makes all outgoing sims change to casual clothes before going out in public.

7.) No More Shocked Reaction by Squinge

This mod prevents all sims from reacting shocked when they see naked sims.

8.) No Shoo For Sims With A Outgoing Personality Of 5 Or More by Squinge

This mod stops all sims with an outgoing personality of 5 or more from shooing sims for privacy.